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God Sees

August 27, 2015 By: Angela Parlin

God SeesSometimes I feed my children an improper view of God.

I’m embarrassed to admit this, but let me explain what I mean.

My (tween) boys love to play Minecraft on the desktop computer in our office-turned-schoolroom. Our oldest takes an online course which teaches him to code Java, and the class uses Minecraft as the platform to teach advanced coding.

So of course, he and his brother need to play in the worlds he creates, to see that it all comes together the way he planned.

I’m good with that. But only if they play by the rules.

In our house, the rule for using any kind of computer or video screen is–Ask First. Because there are a number of important things (like schoolwork) that must be done first. Not only that, but I’ve read too many articles about screen-time turning young minds to mush, and so I limit their time. About this, my boys are thrilled. 🙂

Evenso, the temptation is strong for them, to turn on the computer and click on the little Minecraft icon.

Sometimes I find them playing without permission, so I created a password for them to type in each time they turn on the computer.

The password I created? GOD-SEES.

Just a little reminder.

Just a harmless little reminder. Right? But no.

Recently, I read Psalm 32:8 on a friend’s blog, and it left me thinking about my snappy little password.

I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go;
I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.

What am I really saying to them when I’m saying God Sees?

I realized that my point was not that His loving eye was upon them.

I wasn’t exactly trying to say God will guide you because He loves you and desires the very best for you.

I realized I was feeding them the idea that the Lord is just watching for them to make a mistake. That He’s present where they play, but He’s waiting to zap them with a punishment, the way Mom sometimes assigns an extra chore or gives them sentences to write when they disobey.

But I was wrong. I don’t want my kids to believe God is just watching in order to punish them.

I want them to remember God’s loving eye is on them,
to guide them toward choices that are best for them.

I want them to understand He desires to lead them toward freedom and success, not always in the way we define success, but His way.

I want them to know His eye on them is the gift of His presence–at all times, in every place. That He wants to know them all the way down to their hearts, because of the depths of His love for them.

I also want them to want to know the Lord–to look into His heart and see who He really is.

My mistake led to an important conversation between my boys and me, and God used it to lead all of us back to the truth. I changed the computer password to what I really wanted to remind them to do in the first place–AskMom1st.

I hope we’ll never forget that God Sees—but that we’ll remember God sees all of us with His loving eyes.

See this post also at PurposefulFaith.com today!

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Living Life Fulfilled {& Book Giveaway!}

August 21, 2015 By: Angela Parlin

FulfilledI met Danise Jurado through the #RaRaLinkup, which meets over at PurposefulFaith.com every Tuesday. And I’m so glad I did. Danise serves as pastoral counselor at Angelus Temple & The Dream Center in Los Angeles, California. She also teaches Bible studies and serves in many other ways, because she is passionate about encouraging people to live their most fulfilled life in Christ.

Now I know why.

I’ve read Danise’s book, Fulfilled: Learning to Live the Life God Promised, in which she shares her beautiful story. Her story is filled with the nearness and presence of God, and it inspires me. She shares in this book, how God delivered her from addictions and difficulties and great losses. Through these difficulties, He awakened her to her God-given potential.

I enjoyed this book, but more than that. Parts of Danise’s story moved me to tears. But then I walked away encouraged and had some fresh insight about a discouraging season I walked through recently. By the end, I had implemented some small new habits, which are helping me break free from certain cycles of defeat.

But most importantly, I walked away from this book with an extra spring in my step, with a deepened faith and growing courage.

“God has so much more for us than a mediocre, unfulfilled life.” {Page 32}

That’s good news, isn’t it? Most of us wonder. We question–am I missing something here? Or is just supposed to be this way, for now, this side of heaven? And yes, there are some things that will not be restored until our Lord Jesus Christ returns to make all things new.

On the other hand, He came to give us life to the full, and that life can be realized today. God wants us to live an abundant, fulfilled life.

Like a trusted counselor, Danise helps us apply God’s truth to our lives so we walk in freedom. She invites us to release our fears to the Lord and live with courage.

Danise writes about forgiveness, joy, restoration, confidence, and identity. At one point, a large piece of her identity in this world was taken away suddenly. It was a hard season, but then she found her way back to her truest identity, as a Child of God.

“A fundamental part of living a fulfilled life is knowing and understanding who we are.” {Page 67}

“Our Father is the King of kings, the Lord of lords, the great I AM, the creator of heaven and earth, and He chose us, all of us, to be His children through Christ.” {Page 69}

It’s difficult to summarize this book, because it’s overflowing with truth and inspiration. Not only that, each chapter is practical enough to offer small steps to take in order to grow.

Fulfilled is a shot of hope, to be swallowed down no matter what season you find yourself in today.

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

Romans 15:13

*To be entered in the giveaway, leave me a comment. Yes, right below that part that says, Go Ahead. Make My Day! 🙂 Share something from this review that leaves you curious about this wonderful book. I’ll choose the winner on Wednesday, August 26, 2015. Here’s hoping it’s you!

GIVEAWAY UPDATE (August 26, 2015): Winner is Laura! I’ve emailed you and will mail it out this week! Congratulations! 🙂

 

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Simply Tuesday {Book Giveaway}

August 17, 2015 By: Angela Parlin

Simply-Tuesday-3D2 The truth is, I’m a book girl.

Sometimes we call it my sickness around here.

But there are only a handful of books that end up front and center on my family room bookshelves–and these are all my favorites.

Today I get to tell you about one of my favorites, Emily P. Freeman’s new book, Simply Tuesday: Small-Moment Living in a Fast-Moving World. As part of the Launch Team, I had the opportunity to take in this new release over the summer, in exchange for my honest review.

Because she’s one of my favorite authors, it doesn’t surprise me that I highly recommend this book. {Seriously, you need it!}

But only if you’re one of those people who feels like they’re “being pulled under by the strong current of expectation, comparison, and hurry.”

Only if you suspect that “our obsession with bigger and faster is spinning us out of control.”

Only if you need to find a little space for your soul to breathe.

I don’t want to speak for all of us, but Isn’t that pretty much everyone these days?

As Emily says, “We move through the week breathless and bustling, just trying to keep up while longing to slow down.”

Throughout Simply Tuesday, Emily invites us to slow down and celebrate our smallness. She suggests we look to our Tuesdays, the most ordinary day of the week, to find evidence of presence of Christ and His kingdom.

This book is a great reminder that Christ is the deepest need of our souls, and He gives meaning to even our smallest moments.

Emily told a story that sticks with me, about a little white house she drove past on her way to the beach. Surrounded by a gorgeous field of yellow rapeseed blossoms, the house and its fields of gold fascinated her.

With a little research, she learned the rapeseed plant is a mustard crop–as in The kingdom of God is like a mustard seed.

The mustard seed grows easily and without much human effort.

It’s unruly and untamed, and grows wherever it desires, whether one wants it to grow or not.

“When the kingdom of God takes root, it will grow without much human effort at all.”

“We equate growth and size with God and favor, never stopping to consider the invisible kingdom we walk around in, the kind that starts as a mustard seed and grows whatever way it wants to, the kind that often works in secret, small ways–without our effort–like a seed, like yeast, like salt.”

See what I mean? These are such worthwhile words, and I took pages of notes. Because this world shouts the opposite. This world suggests we need to think bigger and live bigger, and makes me think the outcome is mostly up to me.

Simply Tuesday inspires us to release outcomes to God and to notice His presence “one inch above the ground.” I sincerely hope you’ll read it.

~Angela

Giveaway Details:

To be entered in the drawing for the book giveaway, simply leave a comment below. I will choose one person on Saturday, August 22, 2015, and will mail you a copy of this book (U.S. residents only). Truth be told, one of my kids will choose the name out of a hat…we are high-tech up in here. 🙂

August 22nd Update: The winner of the book giveaway is KELLY! I’ve sent you an email Kelly, and I look forward to getting this book in your hands!

 

What small, simple things do you appreciate today? The kind of things you might find within your ordinary Tuesdays?

Simply Tuesday

 

 

 

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Rest & Life & Everything Else

August 6, 2015 By: Angela Parlin

Rest Life Jesus Christ

Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.

(Matthew 11:28)

This verse follows me around these days, everywhere I go.

From a series I wrote last year to a recent sermon at church to a card from a new friend with this verse painted on the front. Two books I read this summer discussed it at length, and last week, our community group sat around the living room, talking about ways we need to listen to these words.

Do scriptures sometimes chase you around like that?

Like arrows, they point the way to things we need to see.

Since I know these words well, I almost read past them. But there’s gospel wrapped up in them, and they’re worth listening to again.

Come to me.

This means, first of all, to believe and receive Jesus Christ as Savior.

To come is to eat the bread of life and drink His living water, to enter through the Door and spend time being with Him.

Come to who?

Come to Jesus. Our faith should never be wrapped up in a church or other believers or even ourselves. Salvation is found in a Person—Jesus Christ.

Who should come to Jesus?

All you who are weary and burdened.

This means all of us.

We are universally burdened by the weight of our sin. When we come to Jesus, we admit we are chained and He is the only way to freedom.

He desires to set all of us free from sin–if we will come to Him, humble to admit our sin.

There are other ways we are weary and burdened.

The people Jesus spoke to were spiritually weary. The Pharisees placed heavy loads on their shoulders and insisted on a legalistic reading of the law, causing unnecessary spiritual anxiety.

They were weary, and this was not the way of Jesus.

These days, many of us are weary because we rarely stop striving. Maybe we’ve swallowed the lie that we are not enough, we need to prove ourselves, and God is just waiting for us to get our junk together and DO something for Him. Also, it better be big. Flashy. Measurable.

Maybe we’re trying to keep up with what EVERYONE ELSE is already doing, or there’s another reason we work so hard. Either way, we are tired from all we’re doing. We’re burdened by commitments we take upon ourselves unnecessarily.

We may also be burdened by the demands of others, because sometimes the people we care for DO need more. Sometimes, others place loads upon us that we weren’t meant to bear. Other times, we carry wounds caused by others’ sins against us.

Jesus sees all of this. He sees the reasons we are weary and burdened, and He cares.

Jesus—the way, the truth, and the life—offers a better way.

He wants to give us true spiritual and physical rest. He offers eternal rest, as in salvation, and then He gives us even more. The Greek word here carries with it the idea of relief, refreshment, ease, blessed quiet, and even recreation.

Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light. (Matthew 11:29-30)

We may daily enter into the rest of Christ, but this is not something we can earn. It is His gift to us, as we come to Him for life.

At first, we come to Jesus as sinners in need of salvation.

Once we know the way, we come to Him AS the way to life.

We take His yoke upon us, instead of our own. Instead of what everyone else says we need or we need to do. We learn from Him.

In Jesus Christ, we find rest for our souls. With Him, we live out the beauty of the gospel. In Christ, we find rest and life and everything we need.

I’m praying that rest is yours today,

~Angela

See this post also at PurposefulFaith today!

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Dreams & Reality #LongingforParis

August 4, 2015 By: Angela Parlin

longing for parisA few weeks ago, I couldn’t wait to tell you about an amazing book I had just finished reading–Longing for Paris: One Woman’s Search for Joy, Beauty, and Adventure—Right Where She Is.

Written by Sarah Mae, author of Desperate, this book has quickly become one of my favorites. I’m telling you about it again, because today is Launch Day for this gem, and the message is worth spreading.

I could tell you again about how I couldn’t put the book down and I devoured it in a day, while my kids splashed away in the little blow-up deck pool and wouldn’t stop asking me for snacks. 🙂

I could tell you how Sarah Mae understands Mom-life, how she writes as a friend who’s been there, and you might just feel like she peeked inside your own heart.

But instead, let me ask you a question, because I’m guessing you know what I’m talking about.

Do you know that struggle between what you want—and what you want to want?

Sarah Mae has wrestled through that tension, and shares her story in this book, encouraging us to take our desires to the Lord.

She reminds us that God formed our inward parts, as Psalm 139 says. He wove each of us together, and He cares about our dreams.

Is it hard for you to believe, that God cares about your dreams?

In many cases, He has placed those dreams within our hearts. But they’re not always meant for right now. Some dreams are meant to be realized another day.

Dreams Longings

Longing for Paris will encourage you to hold onto your dreams–but with open hands.

I’ve struggled through this myself, and maybe you’ve done the same.

I held tightly to some dreams. I was afraid of both stepping toward them–and also of not ever seeing them come true. In my daily life, I was constantly frustrated with how to work toward those–when other dreams of mine showed up like little people walking around, ALWAYS in need of something more.

In a season of desperation, I offered my dreams to the Lord. I handed them over again and again, until I was sure I had let them go.

I grieved the loss of what I had hoped for and completely said goodbye. At that time, I realized some of my identity was also wrapped up in that thing. That was a whole other tangled mess to unravel.

But God saw me through. He showed me that He cared, and reminded me of His goodness. And then I realized He didn’t agree, that me and my dream had broken up–and that we were never ever ever getting back together.

The dream might not end up looking like I always thought it would look. But it wasn’t over, and it started getting good when I offered it back to Him.

So I love this question Sarah Mae asks in Chapter 1 of Longing for Paris:

“Is it settled in your heart that {God} is good?”

Even if your longings are not fulfilled this side of heaven, will you trust God?

longing for Paris

You realize by now, the book is not really about Paris.

It’s about the way our longings can lead us to the One who filled us with dreams and fulfills our deepest longings.

I’ve been to Paris, and yes, I fell madly in love with the City of Light. But the truth?

“Paris can only ever give me a glimpse of the true thing I yearn for: to be with my God in all of His splendor.” ~Sarah Mae

I think you will love Sarah Mae’s new book. Order it here!

 

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